You sure have to appreciate the subtle ways bullying sneak into our society.
I’m sorry I didn’t blur out the other name, but my posts never get very much attention anyway, so I think I’ll let rip over here. I laugh plenty, but I also have a keen sense of cruelty and I am sick and fucking tired of woman on woman bullying. Calling someone ratchet or bitch, or a ratchet bitch, is bullying. Bullying, no matter how far removed from your victim you are, is bullying. It’s aggressive. And it gives men the wrong idea.
If we bully each other and break each other down and treat each other like all women and girls are less than you just because they don’t know how to flatter their bodies with their clothing or fucking makeup, or they dress differently from you, we as women tell men that we are basically as good as cattle. We give men permission to sexualize and objectify our bodies, and treat us as less than human.
Too few women recognize this.
This Facebook friend of mine went on to mention that this isn’t the first time I’ve ‘buzz killed’ on one of her posts. Heaven forbid I continue to be a buzzkill, I dropped the discussion. I’m not going to get into a fight over her determination to enjoy this post, and I really don’t have the energy to fight someone who doesn’t want to understand where I’m coming from.